I was taught a new technique and it is called rubber band technique where you wear a rubber band on your wrist and everytime I argue i pull my rubber band and then let it snap back and it hits my wrist and lets off a little sting and that will help me to stop what i am doing. But don't pull it far. Not the much from my wrist. But I was taught this technique yesterday in behavior therapy.
I also will tell you that i have adhd and combined type and it is a mild case.
I am a girl also. I am 23 years old but I am very immature and more like a preteen that is age between 9-12 years old
I was also given this technique years ago in therapy. But, it was to stop negative thoughts. Once I realized it was going to hurt I stopped doing it, but it did stop me from the thoughts. How productive is causing oneself pain weird. I am a Social Worker and never heard such a thing. I do feel for you every time I look at my 8 year old and all she has to deal with I hurt for her. [QUOTE=Jillette]How productive is causing oneself pain weird. I am a Social Worker and never heard such a thing. I do feel for you every time I look at my 8 year old and all she has to deal with I hurt for her. [/QUOTE]
It sounds like this rubber band thing is common in the counseling field... &nbs p; A counselor this past year suggested that I use a rubber band around my wrist to remind me if I have some important task to do. And she mentioned pulling it and letting it snap if I wanted to--I guess as a way to motivate myself. I didn't take her suggestion to heart mostly because, even at my age, I will more likely end up shooting the rubber band at someone or something rather than use it as she directed!
I used the rubber band technique years ago when I was in my 20's to help control behavior issues. But it didn't work. Snapping a rubber band on my wrist just made me feel more depressed. It also caused me to do other harmful things to myself. I felt like I needed to be punished; to feel pain for what I was thinking, feeling, and doing. As a result, I'm against this technique. There are other behavior modification techniques that work better. [QUOTE=Jillette]How productive is causing oneself pain weird. I am a Social Worker and never heard such a thing. I do feel for you every time I look at my 8 year old and all she has to deal with I hurt for her. [/QUOTE]